A triumphant journey

Melissa Mayo’s path from foster care to pre-law graduate at UH Hilo

A portrait of a smiling woman with long dark hair, wearing a blue floral patterned top, standing in front of lush tropical plants.Melissa Mayo will graduate from UH Hilo this May with her bachelor’s degree in political science, a minor in gender and women's studies, and a pre-law certificate.

Melissa Mayo’s path to graduation is not a story of ease, but one of profound resilience, love, and the power of perseverance. This spring, as she crosses the stage at the University of Hawaiʻi at Hilo with her bachelor’s degree in political science, a minor in gender and women's studies, and a pre-law certificate, she represents a statistical triumph. Less than four percent of youth who experience the foster care system go on to earn a bachelor's degree.

A young woman in a plaid shirt smiles while sitting on a couch and holding a young girl in a green top.Mayo with her daughter when they were both in foster care. (Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

“I would say proud, excited, nervous, surreal, but grateful,” Mayo shared when asked what words describe how she feels about her upcoming graduation. “I’m proud to be that person for my family.”

Mayo entered the foster care system at age 13. After graduating from Hilo High in 2017, she immediately enrolled at UH Hilo. However, life soon demanded more of her. At just 20, she adopted her 7-year-old niece. Shortly after, she took in two older nieces who had also entered the foster care system.

Balancing full-time advocacy work with the profound responsibility of raising her family, Mayo had to put school on hold in 2022.

A woman and a young girl in a tiara sit on a couch in front of an "Adoption Day" banner and unicorn balloon display.Mayo with her daughter on Adoption Day; Mayo was 20 years-old at the time and her daughter was 7. (Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

A woman and three young girls, all wearing matching red and black plaid outfits, smile together for a festive holiday photo.Mayo with her daughter and her nieces, who are now 19 and 21 years-old. (Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

“I knew school was important. I knew that finishing my degree was going to get me to where I wanted to be,” she explained. “But I also had to take care of my family at the same time.”

Melissa Mayo stands smiling next to a large banner for the 2024 White House Youth Policy Summit.Mayo engaged in national advocacy work.(Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

Three women sit behind a table with informational brochures at an outdoor "Foster Care Awareness" event.Mayo with HI H.O.P.E.S. Youth Leadership Board, comprised of current and former foster youth between 14-26 with the mission to educate, advocate, and collaborate with community partners for improved well-being and outcomes. (Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

Mayo’s professional work is as inspiring as her personal life. Working two jobs, she serves as a lived-experience advocate at the Children’s Law Project of Hawaiʻi, collaborating with guardians ad litem to determine the best interests of youth in care. She also works as a Pilina Circle Specialist at EPIC ʻOhana, facilitating crucial peer support and family meetings for foster youth.

These experiences clarified her ultimate dream: to become an attorney to advocate for children in the foster care system. “I have witnessed first-hand how legal advocacy really makes a difference in kids’ lives, in parents’ lives, and in families’ lives,” Mayo said.

A graduate wearing several celebratory leis and a haku lei shares a joyful embrace with an older woman in a crowded stadium setting.Mayo pictured with her mother at her graduation ceremony from Hilo High. (Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

A group of five young women smile for a selfie together indoors, with various posters and gym equipment in the background.Mayo in her early days at UH Hilo. (Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

When Mayo returned to UH Hilo to finish her degree, she found an academic home that embraced her journey without judgment. She credits the unwavering support of the Political Science department, specifically Prof. Su-Mi Lee, PhD, and Prof. Sarah Marusek, PhD, for helping her navigate her return.

"I felt like when I came back, I was welcomed with open arms into such a positive situation," Mayo reflected. "It's as if no time had passed. It was so supportive."

A woman in a maroon top smiles as a young girl in a denim jacket gives her a piggyback hug in front of a pond.Mayo with her daughter, who is now 13. (Photo courtesy: Melissa Mayo)

As she prepares to receive her diploma, Mayo's daughter and nieces will be in the audience, watching their greatest advocate achieve her dream. Looking ahead to law school, Mayo hopes her story proves that a winding path does not mean an impossible one.

“I know that college is in the cards for them, and even if it’s not a linear path, even if they have to keep trying to make it to the finish line as I did. They will have seen that it's possible and they will have the support to do it,” said Mayo, whose future goals now include ensuring that her daughter and nieces have a chance to follow in her footsteps.

Melissa Mayo’s triumph is a testament to the fact that with dedication, community, and the right support system, any student can build a brighter future at UH Hilo.

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